A Call to Just Be

Mom and daughter laughing together

What if, for one day, everything stopped? All pressing obligations and urgent appointments fell away. There was nothing on the calendar – no work, school, errands, sports practices or chores, nowhere to drive, no lists to check off.
What if the only purpose of this one day was to be, just as you are, however you are? A day to rest, to enjoy, to be present.

Perfect parenting? What it really might mean to “get it right”.

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Too often we think of life in general – and parenting in particular – as if it were a test to pass or a problem to solve. We can become obsessed with “getting it right” and can be pretty harsh on ourselves whenever we make a mistake. But what if being present is what it means to get it right?

You Are the Equipment

dad hugging teen daughter

One of my favorite lines in the gospels is Jesus telling his followers, “Don’t load yourselves up with equipment. Keep it simple; you are the equipment,” (Luke 9:3, MSG, emphasis added). I think this is critical and life-changing advice for parents. In an age where there is an emphasis on doing, teaching skills, and managing one’s image, Jesus literally takes us back to the heart of the matter. When it comes to raising children, parents are the equipment. It is our very presence, our authentic selves which shape and form who our children are becoming.

Set-Apart Space: The Practice of Retreating with Kids

Boy walking on trail through the woods

Is God really real? The question made my breath catch in my chest. He asked it with his sweet
face turned up to me, freckles compressed, brow scrunched in worry. It was unexpected, this
ardent, voiced uncertainty, and it would never have come if I hadn’t made space for it.

Making the Most of Christmas Morning

family opening presents on Christmas morning

After all the shopping, planning, baking and decorating, Christmas Day finally arrives. You want to make Christmas morning special. A memorable and meaningful time as a family. What’s the best approach?

Youthfront’s Jamie Roach explains how parents can model Christ’s love and presence on Christmas morning.

Making Spirits Bright: Practical Tips for Enjoying the Holidays as a Family

family cooking for the holidays

The holidays are supposed to be exciting and restful, meaningful and fun, a time to recharge and spend quality time with friends and family. Sounds like a lot to ask, doesn’t it? No wonder for many of us, the fast-approaching holidays invoke feelings of both excitement and dread. If making it through the holidays can feel like running the gauntlet for us adults, just imagine what it might feel like for our still-developing, anxious, or easily frustrated children. Here are a few suggestions to help all kids—and parents—enjoy the holiday season.

Gates and Mirrors

baby reaching through baby gate

Our two oldest children, who each have babies, both recently bought baby gates for their stairs. Their doing so is a great example of one of the most important jobs we have as parents: to keep our children safe. To do so often requires us to set boundaries. Just like the baby gate at the top of the stairs, boundaries are designed to keep our children safe.

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